A few weeks ago I was talking to a dear friend of mine from high
school about our daughters and tips we may have for smoother bedtime
routines/rituals. My friend Cosette and I have decided to do a collaboration
post about our bedtime routines. We thought it would be a great idea to share
what our routines consist of, especially since I co-sleep, and Cosette has her
daughter sleeping independently in her crib, giving you best of both
worlds!
As any new mom/parent knows, bedtime could either be your worst
enemy, or greatest "friend" depending on how each child is/or acts
around that time. Establishing a bedtime routine early on is key to having a smooth
transition from daily activities to bedtime. Now, establishing a bedtime
routine is certainly no walk in the park... It takes time, consistency,
patience, and repetition for it to really work to your advantage. As long as
you are consistent with your time management/ daily schedule, you can begin to
establish a great routine within no time!
With that being said, here's a little bit about how our bedtime
routine goes:
Now most of you may know, Honor co-sleeps in our bed, and has been
ever since she was about 4-5 months. Initially, I was completely against it and
didn't want her to become dependent on the security that comes with sleeping
with mommy and daddy, but I had to cave in because of the amount of times she
would wake up when sleeping on her own. So for the sake of all of our sanity,
here came Honor, into our bed. In the beginning of our new sleeping
arrangement, I was a bit worried about her safety in our bed, but after a few
nights, that completely ceased and we were all sleeping peacefully. Now, after
having Honor in our bed, I had only intended on keeping her there for about a
month or so, until her teething pain stopped (which was the cause of her
constantly waking up in her crib) I ended up becoming so in love with the idea
of co-sleeping. I went from completely against it, to absolutely loving it! In
fact, I can't sleep now unless she is in our bed (go figure). The sense of
security I get from having her next to me makes any worries I have go
away.
Though we all get a better nights rest with co-sleeping, Honor has
her moments of waking us up throughout the night due to her teeth now cutting
through. But other than that, she is still a pretty good sleeper like she was
in the beginning. On a "good" night, Honor will fall asleep by about
8:50/9 pm (as long as she's had enough playtime time between her afternoon nap
and bath) and sleep till 6:45/7am - with one late night feeding at 4am.
Here is a breakdown of our bedtime routine, which begins at 8pm:
8:00 PM - Get all bottles prepped for bedtime and the next morning
with proper water measurements. Clean diaper, jammies, brush, and ointments
laid out.
8:15 PM - Run bath or shower (sometimes Honor and I co-shower
together) water. Then we hop in, and get squeaky clean.
8:20 PM - Sean will usually come in the bathroom to get Honor and
get her dressed for bed while I finish up my shower.
8:30 PM - Comes and lays in our bed, and has a 7oz bottle which
usually puts her right to sleep - granted, if she has had enough activity prior
to tire her out. Now on days where she may still not be tired by bedtime, she
usually wiggles around like a little worm, or plays with my hands until she has
had enough activity, then will proceed to fall asleep with a paci – 20 min
after being put down (sometimes, those are the toughest nights because she
tends to force herself to stay awake – you can only imagine how nuts it drives
me! Lol especially if there’s a ton of things I need to get done for the
boutique).
As far as products go, here is what we use
to help get her to relax and have her mind focused on bedtime:
I honestly swear by these bedtime products! The relaxing scent
really does add a calming effect to her nighttime routine.
We only shampoo her hair every Sunday and Wednesday evenings.
We also use these hair products for her little curls. Even though
her hair texture is fine like mine, it does dry out quicker if washed on a
daily basis, since she is a mixed baby J. So we use these products morning and night to
keep her hair frizz and dry free.
We use Aquaphor on her face to keep it from drying out, as well as
diaper cream (we have two of them to keep it from cross contaminating. This
keeps her face hydrated.
In honor of this collaboration Cosette and I are doing, we have
decided to put together a giveaway of some of our favorite bedtime products,
& a $15 Shop credit to Honor’s Boutique!
Here's how to enter:
1. You must follow both Cosette and I on Instagram:
2. Repost this Giveaway Picture & hashtag:
#honorsandvictoriagiveaway
3. Tag 2 friends on each of our posts to increase your chances
4. You may enter as much as you like
(Get creative using our giveaway picture, keeping all contents of
it - this will make you stand out!)
6. Giveaway ends on Wednesday 3/18/14 and 12pm PST. The winner will be chosen at random, and be contacted via
Instagram for further required information so that details of the giveaway can
be given.
I hope you all enjoy reading about our nighttime routines, and can
maybe gain some inspiration to create your own! Feel free to comment below
about your current routine, and any tips you may have for us or anyone else!
